Love= Friendship = Love

We know that most of us spend a portion of our lives as singles, and there are often enhanced feelings of isolation or loneliness for those without a romantic connection on Valentines Day. We know that many marriages end and lovers part. I have friendships that have survived every romantic involvement over decades of my life. Why not celebrate that love and support? After all in the original holiday, your Valentine was simply the person you spent the day with. Yes, Valentine’s Day was for lovers, but also for friends.

 

I think it’s time for that older meaning to have a come-back. I see it already with variations on the theme of the day such as Galentine’s and Palentine’s. Nothing predicts good health like friendships. Did you know that? Friendships are very important to health; studies indicate having significant social relationships boosts the immune system, brain health, heart health, not to mention mental health. Even life expectancy. The root of Valentine is valem coming from Ancient Greek, and meaning “strong and healthy.”  I believe we are only as healthy as our friendships and social network, so these non-romantic love connections deserve recognition and celebration. In the challenging and often tumultuous climate of todays world, the need for friendship and platonic love has never been greater.

 

So let’s celebrate love in all it’s forms. As the meme says “Love is love.” Love means sharing, caring, not only romance but relations of all types and stripes. Give hugs and compliments, gratitude and affection to those around you, who make your life richer, fuller, more fun and more worthwhile.

Your Friend,

Judith